I don't have facebook anymore. They shut me down half a dozen times when I was trying to message my son when he was in Afganistan. Apparently thought maybe I was in cahoots with terrorists or something.. anyhow, after a bit of anger, I was back and doing OK.. then I get a message that they don't think I am a real person. In order to reactivate my account, they want a photocopy of my Drivers Licenses and my Social Security number... Uhh, I DON'T think so!!!!
A dozen Emails and more messages, and NEVER one response... I eventually gave up.. so.. No help on Facebook, but if I see your friend one day while I am "out there" I'll be ready to jerk that knot into place!